Do 'special' freshers' bashes, only for DU's north-eastern students, do more damage than good?
It's admission time in Delhi University, which will soon be followed by
numerous freshers' parties. The trend of freshers' bashes, though not
new, has seen several changes, and one of them is the organization of
community-based freshers' parties in the campus. Some students from
north-east India, who study in the north campus of Delhi University,
mainly Ramjas College, Hansraj College and Kirori Mal College, organize
separate freshers' parties exclusively for students from north-east.
Hindu College too had such a party last year, but with a happy
modification in the concept by making it all-inclusive. "At Hindu, the
freshers' ceremony takes the form of a 'cultural integration programme'
where the north-eastern students display their skills and put up stalls,
and students from other parts of India are invited to take part in the
ceremony," said a student of the college. However, separate freshers and
farewell parties, exclusively for the north-eastern students are
organized apparently at the hostel of Hindu College.
We spoke to some Delhi University
students to find out why, according to them, is there a need for
exclusive freshers' parties for north-eastern students apart from the
departmental and the college ones. While some students said it is an
important tool for interaction between newcomers and seniors, others
disagreed with the concept and saw it as an act that promotes groupism.
It's a defence against discrimination
"The freshers' party gives us a chance to make sure that the juniors
get to know their seniors and can contact them when they have problems.
Our only aim is to make sure that the freshers feel more comfortable.
They should be able to fight the discrimination." - Ronika, Ramjas
"We are called 'chinki' and 'momo people'. I am from Manipur and we hardly ever eat any momos there. The freshers' party makes sure that we do not feel alienated." - Chinglen, Hansraj
"It is more like a welcome party. It helps us remain united. The
discrimination is more felt than heard. North-eastern girls are looked
at in a different way, as if they are 'easy' and free" - Krispa, Ramjas
It is harmless
"It is like a two-edged sword. The north-eastern students stay in
groups because they feel discriminated against, and we do not talk to
them because they stay in groups. If exclusive parties organised for
them make them feel better, I am OK with it." - Akash, Kirori Mal
"We have different food habits and we can't speak Hindi. Inside the
campus, we feel safer because we can talk to others in English, but it
does not feel great when people look at you differently in the Metro or
when the landlord wants to overcharge you because you can't bargain in
Hindi. If the university forms an official group for north-eastern
students where the north-eastern students from all Delhi University
colleges can meet, there will be no need for these parties." - Asker,
Hindu
"It is more or less harmless. It's not like the entire class hangs out together all the time anyway." - Kriti, Ramjas
"It helps us make friends
as we can talk to them in our own language. I have not felt any
discrimination myself though. Making friends, especially inside the
campus, is easy." - Alfred Roger, Hansraj College
It's a self-contradictory act
"These parties can promote groupism. We do not have any at our college.
Department and college freshers' parties are enough for me. There are
people from West Bengal and South India too, and we are all classmates at the end of the day." - Ajmal, Zakhir Hussain College
"Although it can be seen as a way of strengthening cultural ties, it
can be counter-productive too. Such exclusive parties may deepen the
already existing divide between the students." - Mihir, Ramjas
"It is not about being different, it is just that we are distinct. We
have a distinct culture and we need interaction."- Hefajuddin, graduate
and former VP of the Manipur Students Association, Delhi
N.E. student associations too
There are also institutions like MSAD (Manipur Students' Association,
Delhi) and NSUD (Naga Students' Union, Delhi) that work for the welfare
of these students. "Speaking in a different language and having a
different appearance makes the students feel alienated. We just want to
help them. We complete their admission processes for them so that they
do not have to come to Delhi early. And we organize a prize distribution
ceremony at the end of the year," said Shafikulhaque Mohd, president,
MSAD.
While students like Ronika think that "the prize
distribution ceremony is encouraging", Asker thinks that "the university
should organize prize distribution ceremonies for students from
north-eastern India".
"But what is the need for all the
'separate' and 'exclusive' things? All meritorious students are awarded
in the annual prize distribution ceremony irrespective of where they are
from," said Arpan, a student at Venkateswara College.